wedding night/honeymoon lingerie question?
My fiance has told me that he doesn’t find lingerie sexy, that he doesn’t see the point in it, since it comes right off. He tells me I am beautiful and sexy and don’t need it. I beleive him, but still want something beautiful and sexy to wear for out wedding night or honeymoon. I think i might feel silly in traditional bridal lingerie, knowing his feeling on it. Any other suggestions? I was thinking about a satin or silk nightshirt. thoughts?
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Go to Victoria Secrets and get one of the night shirts there!
How about something like this:
A very comfortable yet easily accessible nightgown would be appropriate. You might still wears some exciting underwear for YOURSELF…. so you can still feel sexy but keep it simple. You husband to be is right…. It will not be on you long anyway. Enjoy the honeymoon.
A sexy bra & matching panties would be great. It seems like middle ground between you and your soon-to-be husband.
My HTB feels the same way. I just made sure that the underoos I got for the wedding were nice…super sexy corset with the garters and all that. I know he likes the look but won’t complain about it being pointless since it’s also responsible for holding up the girls during the day.
Just get something you feel pretty in! However, I know where he’s coming from, my husband is the same way. Naked is preferred by most men.
Don’t worry about how HE feels about the lingerie, it is about how it makes YOU feel. If it doesn’t make you feel sexy then it isn’t worth it. Now having said that, look around at different shops Victoria’s Secret is always good. They have beautiful things that aren’t too risque. If you want to go farther then go to an adult “toy” store and see what’s there. Let your best freinds know what you want so they can “shower” you with them. Good luck and congratulations. The most important thing is have fun.
Just a tee and panties are fine if you have a good figure.
Go with something that you will feel good in. I have a couple of very comfortable, short satin spaghetti-strapped nighties/night-gown-things, and I love them. They are the most comfortable things ever, and my boyfriend often thinks I’ve put them on special for him. I recommend something sexy but comfortable that you will want to wear in the future over and over again.
A chemise is also a great option, since it’s similar to regular nightwear and can be as simple or as fancy as you want it to be.
The important thing is for you to feel comfortable, pretty and sexy in it. I’m sure your fiancee won’t mind at all when he sees you in it.
Good luck and congratulations!
maybe like a silk robe with some your own underwear and bra… for some reason guys like black and its a sexy color to wear.. i would go with that…whatever makes u comfy! GL